York, you're absolutely right.Surely it's better to acknowledge that different people want different things than it is to just blindly keep insulting people because they prefer a different playstyle to us?
Now actually try and stick your head up around here and point out that,
1) a balanced system does not preclude the more relaxed players from still playing the way they want, while still allowing the more competitive players to play the way they want.
2) that demanding the game only be "relaxed"and deriding those who wish for a more competitively able game IS insulting people for merely wanting to play the game differently.