I appreciate the South Park reference, but that's getting a bit off. If I didn't get the reference it'd sound pretty horrific!
I haven't heard this phrased so well before. People failing to distinguish between culture and race is a helluva a problem.
I'm not being aggressive about this, but it really isn't a choice. The various conservative or church figures who're found to be gay, then dragged through the mud - I can quite confidently say they never chose that, to live a life tormented because they were raised being told that part of who they are is fundamentally "wrong".