From my own personal perspective, in general, I think way too many people spend way too much time thinking about what other people are doing (or aren't doing) with their naughty bits.
But given most of the population is wanting other people's naughty bits to interact with their own naughty bits in some way, it seems only right and proper to give at least passing consideration to what others are doing with their naughty bits.
Chief Educator of the Horsemen of Derailment "People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought, which they avoid." SOREN KIERKEGAARD