Originally Posted by
ElectricPaladin
I think the boys understood that they were doing something sexual to a girl against her will. Perhaps they justified it by insisting to themselves that she was drunk, or that it didn't count as "really rape" because they weren't being violent. But really? I think they knew what they were doing. They obviously didn't have the moral center to take a different course. They clearly didn't think about the consequences of their actions until afterwards, when they tried to cover it up. But they did it, and they knew it was bad, or they wouldn't have tried to cover it up in the first place. In fact, I think that one of the heinous online videos involve one of the boys saying to someone else "she is so raped."
I think when people say "I didn't know it was rape," they're talking about situations in which they were also drunk or high, in which case it's ambiguous who raped who. Or they're talking about a situation in which their partner was one of the rare people who can get black-out drunk without seeming black-out impaired. Or cases of statutory rape in which the minor managed to deceive the adult about his or her age.
But really? How often do these things happen? Were the law just, it would take them into account, certainly. While a 30 year old who has sex with a 15 year old pretending to be an 18 year old should probably get help to improve his or her judgment, this person probably doesn't deserve to be on a sex offenders list for the rest of his or her life. I've heard of a handful of cases in which two drunk people have sex and, in the morning, the man is arrested, because in some states the law is worded such that the man is always considered the rapist even if both are drunk. So, there are grey areas, and fuzzy lines, and perhaps a few people being punished more severely than they really deserve.
But I don't think these kids didn't understand that they were raping a girl. They knew what they were doing, and they knew it was wrong. They just thought that it was an ok sort of wrong, a relatively minor offense, like streaming Warhammer 40k pdfs. Because their moral centers were completely out of whack and they lived in a town that treated them like nobility because of their football skills.