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Did you read my previous statement?
I was writting edditing it before you post appeared.
Okay.
I think not baby puppy.
I notice that no one decided to pick up on the point that ERW writes off Breast/penis enlargement as cosmetic and pointless. Again, I reiterate that to someone who has body issues that lead them to that point, their self disgust and loathing is equal to that so eloquently described by Gotty - their problem is as pressing to them as that of transgender. A girl who has been slagged off for being 'flat' all her life is likely to be in as much mental pain as someone agonising that they happened to be sprogged the wrong sex.
In my experience of life, there are many people whose lack of socialisation compared to societal norms, seek to write it off with a syndrome. Ie 'he's not a naughty little child whose parents should have disciplined him, he's got ADHD! Get out the ritalin' Etc Etc.
I'm not saying this is true in all cases, of course not. But just as I find this to be true, I wonder if TDA's experience of warhammer attracting a lot of people with mental issues - is actually people with socialisation issues. Maybe TDA you are actually writing off your prejudices by just conveniently boxing off lonely smelly geeks as having a mental illness. Who knows? I am not aware in 23 years of playing this game, of an increased amount of mentally ill players versus societal levels of mental illness- although I am aware of persons not within societal norms generally - ie the 'geek' subculture.
Actually I will apologise if it seemed like I was saying all mental illness is actually a lack of mental fortitude - yes it is not a case of MTFU. I encounter mental illness in my work - I have clinically depressed people working for me. I have regular breifings on battlefield stress and PTSD. We no longer hide these things away, we recognise and treat them.
However, It is a medical fact that not all trans persons have the medically recognised Gender Identity Disorder as diagnised in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders - ie the Bible of Psychiatry syptoms. Even the Trans population do not agree whther it is societal, genetic, or a mental illness. Not all transgender persons are mentally ill.
So therefore I still think the NHS should concentrate on life saving stuff, cancer treatments, heart attack rates improvements, eliminating MRSA.
I also think it rich for Foreigners who don't contribute to the NHS to state that said organ of government should fund one or other treatments in priority to others.
Well, for instance, I personally know about 4 or 5 people with diagnosed Autism that play Warhammer, one of which being my step-brother. So I'd appreciate it if you did not slander off him or his disability.
Ta.
I'm not discussing this further. I'm trying to enjoy a day off here and I have to respond to complaints...
I think what will be more telling is when/if the government brings in a bill to limit the maximum amount of child benefits that are available. Currently, there are two rates a higher one for the first born (which is transferrable to subsequent children upon their 18th birthday) and a lower one for the rest. With the proposed plan this would limit the amount of cash for this, it would also therefore reduce the demand for child care places and therefore reduce the cost per child. Afterall it is oft said that a Morgan is more expensive by the time you pick it up then when you order it as the demand for them is so high.
I refute the claims that "most want to work" as there is no solid evidence to show this. I know of cases where this is the case, and have mentioned them on here previously, similiarly I know of cases where this is not the case and having additional children is the game plan to earn more money.
I think the simple test would be to see which is more expensive to the tax payer. Is it cheaper to keep these people at home looking after their children or is it cheaper to provide them with the opportuinity to work.
There is one thing that I think people forget. Having children is a privalge and not a right. I do not see why those who choose not to have them, or are unable to should be made to pay for those which do.
There should be no additional benefits after the first two. As Wolfie said, people have no RIGHT to children. We are already over populated, having two and no more should provide a slow population decline to a more sensible population.
I personally know of tow people who do this. The SO has told me many times about a third of the girls she went to school with had this as a life plan.